Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.
This made me really sad to make. I’m very protective over Eden because of everything he’s gone through. He’s so precious.
HOLY GOODNESS. THE. FEELS!!
I don’t wanna go to work. I don’t wanna grow up. I’m not going, I’m going to stay home and watch Mulan
i just really hope all of you find someone who is really cool that you can love and have sex with and all that shit but you can also talk politics and about evolution. someone you don’t cling to at parties but you nonchalantly grab their ass when you walk by them in the crowd and someone you reach for at 2am in between dreams to cuddle.
sext: i want to pay bills and share household duties and approach our late 20’s in a financially and emotionally stable way with you
i am so jealous of all the people who are comfortable with who they are physically and mentally